THE CONFIDENCE SCORE — QUESTIONS & RESULTS (v1 draft, for Karen to edit) Answer scale: Almost always (5) · Often (4) · Sometimes (3) · Rarely (2) · Almost never (1) Zone score = (20 - sum of the zone's 4 answers) / 16 x 100. Overall = average of the 3 zones. Lowest zone = biggest gap. 1. [Self-trust] After I make a decision at work, I replay it in my head and wonder if I got it wrong. 2. [Speaking up] I know what I want to say in a meeting, but I hold back. 3. [Under pressure] When I'm challenged in front of others, I ramble or over-explain. 4. [Self-trust] I look for other people's opinions before I trust my own. 5. [Speaking up] I say yes when I really want to say no. 6. [Under pressure] Before a big presentation or high-stakes moment, my body takes over: racing heart, shaky voice, blank mind. 7. [Self-trust] When I succeed, part of me thinks I got lucky, or that I'll be found out. 8. [Speaking up] I put off a difficult conversation until it turns into a bigger problem. 9. [Under pressure] When visibility or leadership is on the line, I play smaller than I am. 10. [Self-trust] I overthink simple choices long after I should have moved on. 11. [Speaking up] I start with "sorry" or "I just…" when I'm about to make a point. 12. [Under pressure] When someone tries to trigger me, I react before I think. RESULT — Self-trust Hello, overthinker. Your gap is self-trust. You're capable, and you know it on paper. But you replay, second-guess and look outside yourself for permission. That's not a personality flaw. It's an untrained skill, and it's costing you time, energy and decisions. First move: Make one small decision today and don't revisit it. No replaying, no polling friends. Decide, then move. Recommended $97 Reset: Stop Overthinking Yourself™ — For overthinking, second-guessing, imposter syndrome and decision confidence. Learn to trust yourself faster. RESULT — Speaking up Hello, quiet expert. Your gap is speaking up. You know what you want to say. You just don't always say it, or you soften it until it disappears. You don't need to get louder. You need to get clearer, and hold your ground without apologizing for it. First move: Remove the word "just" for the next 48 hours. Swap "Sorry, I just wanted to say…" for "I'd like to add something here." Recommended $97 Reset: Speak Up™ — For assertiveness, boundaries, saying no, difficult conversations and asking for what you need, without becoming aggressive. RESULT — Under pressure Hello, pressure leaker. Your gap is confidence under pressure. You're strong until the stakes rise. Then your nervous system takes the wheel: you rush, over-explain or freeze. That's normal, and it's trainable. Composure is a skill, not a gift. First move: Next time you're challenged: drop your shoulders, breathe in for 4 and out for 6, then pause 2 seconds before you answer. Recommended $97 Reset: Confidence Under Pressure™ — For executive presence, visibility, presentations and high-stakes moments. Stay calm, clear and in control when it counts.